Good Leadership

Bloganuary writing prompt
What makes a good leader?

When I think of leadership and those “in charge” of me through school, work, and whatever, the good ones had the same qualities:
 Patience
 Humility
 Mildness
 Kindness
 Self-control
 Humor
 Confidence
 Wisdom

Now, think of people you know (or know of) with these qualities. I immediately thought of Jesus Christ, John F. Kennedy, and Ronald Reagan.

Who do you think of?

To Keep, or not to Keep

Bloganuary writing prompt
Where can you reduce clutter in your life?

That is the question.

I have clutter in every aspect of my life. As a writer, I have kept short stories and novel drafts over the years. I even have the first spiral notebooks in which I wrote poems and short stories. I wrote most drafts using pen and paper because it was easier than pounding on an old manual typewriter.
I have filing cabinets and bookshelves full of binders of drafts and notes that ‘I might want to revisit.’ I do go back every 3 years or so to reread some of my favorites. Occasionally, I even tinker with one, trying to be inspired. I don’t remember ever breathing life back into any former efforts.

Old Notebooks

Another area of my life with clutter is the guest room that I call my sewing/craft room. I have been “building up my stash” since 2013 when I joined a quilt guild. Almost every week, we have fabrics sitting on our “free table.” I have found some really cool stuff on that table. Someday, I need to dig in and make a lot more quilts for charity and use that fabric up. I have cupboards full, boxes under the bed, and even some bins in the basement. Some may call that hoarding. I call it preparation.


I have way too many cookbooks. I started my own cookbook back when my kids were young. My notes are semi-organized, and most recipes have been taste-tested. My goal was to give them a cookbook when they went off on their own. The kids are in their 40s now, so I guess that plan is moot. Perhaps by the time I have great-grandchildren…

I sometimes have these days where my mindset is, “You don’t need all this stuff!” And that is true – I don’t need it. However, I may want it at some point in the future. I suppose that is why I keep it. Just in case.

Coolest Business Ever

Daily writing prompt
Come up with a crazy business idea.

It was a crazy business idea alright. But somehow my college roommate and I decided to start up “Dial A Joke.” The University was in a small river town so the word spread quickly. What was supposed to be a funny joke around campus, Dial a Joke became extremely popular at the grade schools. We had to check out joke books from the library. Adult AND children’s books. Our parents and friends must have thought we were super popular because our phone was always busy. This was in the late 1970’s. No mobile phones, google, or internet of any kind. Our little business went viral – in a non-digital way.

Old Notebooks

To slow down the ridiculous amount of calls we were getting, we started Joke of the Day and only told one joke all day. The novelty wore off for the campus and local High School after a few months. Not so for the middle and grade schools. My roommate and I were way beyond the funny idea. But we did learn a valuable lesson: Don’t put together a business plan and start carrying it out until you have figured out how you are going to get paid to do it. Do not work for free!