What Mommy Doesn’t Know…

Eyes

My daughter had a class all day last Saturday and she had asked hubby and I if we could watch the girls.   I pretended to think about it.  But it was an offer we couldn’t refuse. Like she didn’t know. Why doesn’t she just tell us when we are going to watch the girls? It would save time and texting.

Let me say up front that much fun was had by all and nobody got hurt. Grandma did re-learn some old tricks, however. I’m sure my daughter is fully aware of these things, so I didn’t bother  to mention them…

The things I re-learned Saturday:

Babies don’t know from grooming. Miss C. never seems to be bothered by her soft curls falling into her face. Her hair is a bit “wild” at times, but she looks so darned cute and I’m afraid to piss her off by trying to tame it into a pony tail.  So .. I don’t.  Well, Miss C. got frustrated during lunchtime and pushed her hair out of her face.  Using her open-faced peanut butter and banana sandwich. To her credit, it really did the job of keeping her hair in place.

Babies think they can fly. I don’t know where they get this idea.  I’m pretty sure little Miss C. can’t fly, which is why I freaked out when I was holding her and she pushed off with her legs and launched herself away from my body, her arms leading her like Superman.  I lunged and snatched her out of the air and back into my arms so fast, it was like time went into reverse. I know that for half a second that baby was airborne. Maybe they can fly, and it’s the landing we freak out about.

Today’s cartoons suck. What ever happened to the classics? Kids today are deprived of  The Roadrunner, Fog-Horn Leg Horn, Yosemite Sam, and the ever lovable Tasmanian Devil. I did not see one decent cartoon available for Miss P. Thank goodness for On-Demand and re-runs of Scooby-Doo, Tom & Jerry, and Micky Mouse. Miss P. is too old for Sesame Street, but graciously lets Miss C. watch Elmo now and then. I do my best to get Miss P. interested in classic movies & Disney.  But sometimes a girl just has to watch iCarly, or worse –Bratz!  If you have seen either show you can feel my pain.  At least she doesn’t beg me to watch Sponge Bob Smartie Pants  anymore.

Mysterious (and Evil) Numbers

428 is an evil number. It either means 4:28 AM, which is before the butt crack of dawn, or it could be my fasting blood sugar number.  This morning it was both.

Like a good diabetic, I injected the usual and a correctional dose of insulin. Problem taken care of? Not even close. At 8:00AM my number was 446. Four hours of zero caffeine and no breakfast, and it goes UP? Where is the damned sugar coming from? Usually extra glucose is produced by the liver when your blood sugar drops too low. 428 is NOT a low number. Maybe my liver is no good at math. Maybe it too, is evil.

All I know is that I should go to the doctor when it’s this high. But since I’m not supposed to drive when it’s this high, I can’t get there without bugging hubby or a girlfriend. Sooo… My plan is to stick my finger at 9:30 and see what the mystery number is. If higher – go to hospital. If lower, sigh relief and then do my errands and chores before the big game this afternoon. While I wait for 9:30, I’m going to drink a gallon of water because I am so thirsty I can’t think!

321. Lower – enough to get out of a hospital visit, but too high to drive. I bum a ride with a girlfriend to our ladies meeting and I’m packing saltines and 7Up in my purse to combat the nausea that happens when blood glucose levels change drastically.

I sure hope my 49ers are having a better morning  😉

A Gratitude Attitude

January is National Thank You Month.

Thank you message in the grotto of Our Lady of Guadalupe Church (New Orleans). Image courtesy of Wikipedia

I didn’t know that either, until today, after I googled it.  This is the perfect month for the National Thank You to be in. Right after Christmas, and to put a positive spin on the new year.  January is usually my least favorite month. I’m either sick, depressed, or both. So, I will start being thankful that January only has a couple more weeks to go. 🙂

I came across the following article, “Tips for Nurturing Your Gratitude Attitude“, written by Laura Carlson and appears in ICDC Life, the official magazine of ICDC College.  Perhaps you’ll get something out of it too…

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“When you arise in the morning, give thanks for the morning light, for your life and strength. Give thanks for your food, and the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies with yourself.”

—Tecumseh, Shawnee Chief

First and foremost, developing a gratitude attitude can actually help make you healthier and happier. Recent research shows that gratefulness has been associated with better sleep, lower anxiety and depression, and heightened satisfaction with life. Plus, it helps you behave nicer toward others.

Consider the facts from a University of California, Davis /University of Miami study on gratitude. The study’s subjects were asked to keep a weekly journal of five things they were grateful for (such as an outing they enjoyed, a friend’s kindness, or something new they learned). When compared with the control group, those keeping the journal felt happier and had fewer physical issues.

Second, further benefits of gratitude were shown in a separate study of people with neuromuscular issues. The ones who kept a gratitude log reported feeling happier, and they also fell asleep more quickly. They slept longer and woke up feeling more refreshed, too!

Third, other research showed that a grateful attitude is associated with reduced levels of aggression. A thankful outlook can improve mental well-being and motivate people to express concern for others.

Here are some ways to celebrate National Thank-You Month:

Keep a gratitude journal. Each week, jot down five specific reasons to give thanks—like anything going well in your life. (Note: If you have a way of viewing the world that is mean and downcast, you’re likely going to receive anger and frustration in return.)

Try doing small, thoughtful things for your family. It doesn’t matter how dysfunctional your family might be, you can do small, thoughtful things. For instance, when you truly listen to them, you will begin to see subtle, positive reactions, according to research done at University of California, Riverside.

Make a gratitude visit. Write a letter to a person who improved your life and remember to be specific. Bring it to them in person, and try not to tell him or her ahead of time what your visit is about. When you meet up with the person, read the letter slowly to the recipient. According to a study at University of Pennsylvania, you will start to feel happier yourself!

Hang out with thankful people. When you socialize with others who are optimistic and appreciative, it can be contagious. These people tend to be energetic, have a happy attitude, and are comfortable trying new things.

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